Brian's Takes and Views

       Although I feel that communication isn’t the most important thing in a relationship. It still stands as a valuable gem. Think about it, from infancy to the grand age of having time shown on our skin, we all need to learn to communicate. Communication is how we transfer some of our thoughts and feelings to another person. As we learn there are several ways to convey a message to someone. For a thought and feeling to be received correctly we need to put the right percentage of words, tones, and non-verbal into it. this could be way getting across what we mean some of the time gets lost in translation. This is why I find communication not the most important. It’s the things I say that usually causes a rift in my relationship.                 That’s the issue with communication, somewhere between encode and decoding the things we mean may at times get misunderstood. Especially in our day ...

                  Funny enough it was quite educational discussing sexual intimacy this week. Before anyone who reads this is nervous that I am just going to give the full scoop on my sex life. I’ll ease your minds and say that stuff is private and should be kept between husband and wife.   Saying that remind me of a time, I was on Facebook. Some random guy that I didn’t know personally, but I think was a friend of my siblings? He was hinting strongly that he wanted to know “how things were going”.   First of all, I don’t know you like that and even if I did. You aren’t getting me to spill the sacredness of my alone time with my wife. Anyway, I think I made my point, there will be no personal sex stories. I will, however talk about what makes meaningful sex and things I wasn’t aware when I was young, that I am glad I know now.            ...